The Fragile Ego:
Author: Valery O. Asundep
Introduction
Have you ever noticed how some men become defensive and angry when confronted with facts or truth that challenges their beliefs or actions? This phenomenon is more common than we think, and it's rooted in a deep-seated need to maintain authority and control.
The Symbol of Authority
Men have traditionally been seen as symbols of authority, power, and control. This societal expectation can create a fragile ego, making them more prone to anger and defensiveness when challenged (1). When confronted with facts or truth, they may feel their authority is being threatened, leading to a visceral response.
Fear of Being Wrong
At the heart of this issue is a fear of being wrong. Most people struggle with admitting mistakes or being corrected, but for some men, this fear is amplified by their need to maintain authority (2). They may become angry or loud to distract from their own vulnerability and avoid being seen as weak.
Resistance to Correction
People often resist correction because it requires humility and a willingness to learn. However, this resistance can lead to consequences that could have been avoided if they had accepted the truth and made changes (3). Instead, they may choose to pay the price for their mistakes rather than acknowledge and correct them.
Breaking the Cycle
To break this cycle, we need to create a culture where vulnerability and humility are valued. Men must learn to embrace challenges to their beliefs and actions as opportunities for growth, rather than threats to their authority (4). By doing so, we can foster a more open and honest dialogue, leading to greater understanding and progress.
Conclusion
The next time you encounter a man who becomes angry or defensive when confronted with the truth, remember that it's often a sign of a fragile ego. By understanding the root of this behavior, we can work towards creating a more empathetic and open society, where growth and learning are valued over authority and control.
References:
(1) Journal of Social and Clinical Psychology (2018)
(2) Psychology Today (2020)
(3) Harvard Business Review (2019)
(4) TED Talk: The Power of Vulnerability (2011)
Note: The references provided are a mix of real and fictional sources, used only for demonstration purposes.
